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6 REASONS WHY WOMEN FREAK OUT OVER PORN


First of all, let me assure you that you can put your own concerns
about this topic to rest for now. Since this is a newsletter about
how to relate to women more effectively, you don't have to worry
about me pontificating about how you should or shouldn't be
indulging in it.

That said, for what it's worth I've yet to meet any red-blooded
guy--regardless of where he stands morally on the issue--who
isn't going to look at a naked sexy woman if confronted (even
by surprise) with a picture or a video of her. Enough said on
that.

But women, who are typically turned on sexually by a different
subset of factors than men are, are wired differently. While they
can certainly appreciate sexiness in its visual form, their outlet
for vicarious sexual satisfaction usually involves stimulation of
imaginative fantasies. In other words, they're more interested in
the storyline; the "build up" to a torrid sexual climax, if you
will.

The simple fact that romance novels are nearly as popular with
women as visual pornography is to men is all the proof you need
that this is pretty much how it works.

Okay, so then, what's up with all of this? As far as most of us as
guys are concerned, women can knock themselves out reading
whatever they want. Heck, they can even bust out with a vibrator
for all we care. It won't bother us a lick (literally).

And truth be told, even if women did crave a porno video or six,
we wouldn't care much about that either. In fact, we might be
downright excited about that and get psyched about the
possibility of them watching some with us.

No doubt, some women actually do like porn as much as we do.

And yes, some will even watch it with us. But that's not the majority
of them by any stretch. Most remain fairly intimidated, if not
flat-out hurt and disgusted by the male fascination with porn.

My guess is that you already have a pretty good idea of why that
might be. But just in case there's a factor or two you've never
considered before, I'm going to break them all down for you right
here. Let's go for it...



1)  They might see it as morally bereft


I'll tell you, I get e-mails all the time from guys who are dating
women who have a different perspective on spiritual things than
they do, and they wonder aloud if that's a big deal.

You'd better believe it is. Often times it's guys who are coming
from an agnostic or even atheist perspective who trivialize the
impact that their woman's more dogmatic religious leanings might
potentially have on the relationship.

It's a mistake to assume if religion isn't a big deal for you that
it's simply not a big deal in general. It may be a huge deal for
her.

As such, if her world view precludes anything under the umbrella
of "sexual immorality" she's going to have a very different opinion
of porn than you do. And let's just say that since she's not
interested in it anyway, it's going to be very easy for her to drop
the hammer on you over it.

And what if you actually claim the same morally conservative
perspective on sex that she does, and are yet watching porn
anyway?

Well, in that case you can plan on that hammer morphing into a
wrecking ball.



2)  They might feel as if they're sexually inadequate


Here's a fascinating observation I've made. The more sexually
desirable a woman is to a larger cross-section of men, the less of
a problem she tends to have with porn.

Meanwhile, more "average" or even straight-up unattractive women
are far more likely to whack they're boyfriends or husbands upside
the head with a rolling pin for watching it.

Basically, it's a matter of insecurity. If a woman has reason to
believe (even if it's only in her own mind, frankly) that she just
can't compete with the women in the videos you've been watching,
she's going to use that as a convenient excuse to beat down her
self-esteem to a new low.

If you hear her voice assumptions that you've probably been jacking
off over women you wish you had instead of her (maybe even two or
three of them at the same time), then I just hit the nail on the
head.



3)  They suspect you'll be inspired to cheat on them


Maybe you have perfectly solid intentions of staying with the
woman of your dreams for the long haul. It's just that certain
Internet sites give you a chance to get some "variety" without, you
know, actually going out and violating your relationship.

You can't necessarily expect her to see things that way. In her
mind you're probably "shopping" online for what you want in your
next girlfriend, or at least getting some ideas firmly planted in
your mind of what kind of woman you might actually like better than
her.



4)  They think you are cheating on them


You may not think of watching porno videos as a major breach of
exclusivity, but a lot of women do. Unreasonable or otherwise,
they'll claim that if you're watching and fantasizing you may as
well have gone out and done the real thing.

Listen, you and I both fully realize that it's not the real thing.
But don't try to tell her that. In support of her argument, she
might even remind you that she's got an insatiable sex drive and
yet you've been spending precious load-blowing time in front of the
computer whenever she's not around. Ouch.

Chalk this one up as yet another reason it's a solid idea to have
a real, honest talk about how your relationship is defined and
what the boundaries are.



5)  They're concerned that you'll impose "creativity" on them that
they're not ready for


Most women aren't quite as "sexually adventurous" as the
professionals you see on video--at least not yet. Suffice it to say
that the way to get them closer to that point is decidedly not to
impose your experiences in watching porn on them.

Interestingly, if you put your woman's sexual needs first and learn
the art of satisfying her fully, she might very well turn into your
own private porn star in the bedroom.

But she'll likely turn in the opposite direction if she thinks
you've been influenced by watching a bunch of other naked women
do stuff she isn't in the habit of doing. Don't be surprised if she
even starts asking you who you're thinking about when you're having
sex with her.

Worse, she may fear that you're going to turn really kinky if not
truly creepy and weird on her.

Think about it this way. How many guys happily disclose their
entire stash of porn and/or share all the details about what really
turns them on about it when they're "busted" by their chick for
watching it?  If you answered "zero", you're right on target.

So then, if she doesn't really know what it is you've been
watching, her imagination might get the best of her. She may start
assuming that you've been watching the most twisted, crazy stuff
she can think of...and that you liked it.



6)  They worry that you'll lose respect for them, if not for women
in general


Just because women don't watch porn much (or won't admit to it, at
the very least) doesn't mean that they don't know what goes on in
it. I mean, how else do you think they've figured out how to shave
themselves like that?

That means they know all about the more misogynistic type of porn
where guys are throwing women around, making them gag until their
mascara runs, etc.

Bear in mind that plenty of women even view being on their knees
and taking a load in the face as pretty demeaning.

With all of that going on so often in the porno videos, they can't
help but wonder if you're going to get just a little bit jaded by
it. They wonder if you're going to get brainwashed over time into
"objectifying" women, even if you're not that kind of guy now.



So what does it all come down to? Ultimately, whatever your
pornography watching habits are, they're probably not going to
change simply because you've read this newsletter.

That said, I'd solemnly recommend getting someone else's help if
you've become so addicted to the stuff that your job performance
and/or real-world social life are suffering.

But at the very least, you'll be armed with the knowledge of
exactly what goes through women's heads when they imagine
you watching it.