[X&Y] Part Two: How To Know What Kind Of Woman You Want
Published: Mon, 04/08/19
IN THIS EDITION: For every "whitelist" there should also be
its darker counterpart, the "blacklist".
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SO HOW DID IT GO THIS WEEKEND?
Did you go out planning to meet women?
If so, did you wake up the next morning excited about the numbers
you got and the choices you have?
Or are you frustrated and bummed out?
Did you actually meet an amazing woman and develop amazing
"chemistry" with her immediately--and end up making out with
her for hours?
Or did you come home earlier than you expected to and watch
SportsCenter instead?
It's time to face it. If you're not getting the results you
want with women you really believe you deserve, then it's
time to do something about it.
Life's too short and the women you want the most are WAY too
willing and eager to spend their time and sexual energy on some
other guy if you don't ever step up.
It's time they were with YOU instead.
And that means it's time to get in touch with me about 1-on-1
coaching:
Tell me your story. Tell me where you are today and where you'd
like to be.
If you'd rather, talk to me for free for 25-minutes:
http://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/takeaction
I'm here for you, and I've been one of the most well-known dating
coaches on Earth for over thirteen years now for good reason: I get
real-world results for each and every guy who puts me to work
for him.Life's most bitter regrets come when we DON'T do what we know we
should do.
Shouldn't you be the one getting a pocket full of numbers and
creating "movie moments" with delighted cuties everywhere?
Drop me a note and let's turn this ship around for you:
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PART TWO: HOW TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF WOMAN YOU WANT
Yesterday, I equipped you with one of the most valuable tools
imaginable for selecting high quality women.
That's a "whitelist" of ten traits that you deem most important
in the woman of your dreams.
I trust you've already built yourself a bulletproof one since
yesterday, right?
Well, as promised, here is perhaps an even MORE crucial exercise
for you.
You've got to make a "blacklist" as well. Don't worry, it's not
like Raymond Reddington's list of international thugs.
Rather, on your version will be listed the absolute dealbreakers
that should unequivocally disqualify ANY woman you know from
being in your life.
that should unequivocally disqualify ANY woman you know from
being in your life.
Now, unlike the whitelist, this list has no limit with regard
to the number of entries that can be on it. And it doesn't
require any scaling from 1-10.
Rather, this one IS indeed completely binary. That is, each
respective criterion can be checked "Yes" or "No" for each
respective woman you know.
Again...I don't care what's actually ON the list. That's up to you.
But whatever you write down on the blacklist, you've got to
promise yourself RIGHT NOW that if you ever see any of it show
up in a particular woman you are dating, it's breakup time.
No ifs, ands or buts. No passing "go" or collecting $200.
If you build the blacklist and live by it as closely as you do the
whitelist, your chances of having to deal with excessive,
mind-numbing and potentially life-altering relationship drama will
go WAY, WAY down.
In fact, most guys who overlook what I'm sharing with you today are
LIKELY to end up with the wrong woman...and even LIKELY to
end up in divorce court.
If you think I'm kidding, simply look at the public statistics.
So like the whitelist, it's amazingly important that you create the
blacklist BEFORE you start dating.
That is, BEFORE you start dating someone who is so hot she causes
you to EXCUSE what may have been a clear "dealbreaker"...if only you
had written it down BEFORE meeting her.
The blacklist "clears your head" about what you DON'T want, much as
the Whitelist gives you clarity about what you DO want.
Think of both lists as two halves of a pact you make with yourself
at the very beginning of your journey to becoming successful with
women.
When it's "in writing" on paper...perhaps even endorsed with your
own signature, you'll always have an immediate an undeniable
touchstone to YOUR REALITY as perceived long before ever being
potentially "clouded by beauty vision".
Can you see the importance of building a whitelist AND a blacklist
...and sticking to them no matter what?
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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