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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Here is a simple and practical way to make her feel
more comfortable with you from the very start...which always leads to
GREAT things.

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SUMMER IS FULL SWING, AND THE WOMEN ARE BORED


I fully get some of you are still on "lockdown" depending on
where you live.

But most of you are NOT.

This means you have about a month to to meet women
in bikinis, hang out on the beach or at the lake with them,
enjoy good times under the warm evening moonlight and
more.

What are you going to do with this amazing opportunity?

Will you stay in and watch re-runs this month?

Worse...are you never going to rescue all those amazing
women from watching re-runs?

Does what I'm talking about you motivate you, or does it
scare you to death?

Well, if it's the latter, you're not alone.  

In fact, years ago I would have been feeling serious
pressure to meet women during the summertime instead
of being excited about it.

Lockdown or not.

But that's why I've got your back these days.  After all,
meeting women is supposed to be FUN, not work.

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DO THIS AND SHE'LL FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE WITH
YOU IMMEDIATELY



"It's like we've known each other for TEN YEARS, not TEN
MINUTES."


Those are the magic words indicating a woman is completely
comfortable in your presence.

As we've talked about before, a major linchpin of the "big four"
along with confidence, masculinity and character is the ability to
cause a woman to feel safe and comfortable in your presence,
aka "inspiring confidence".

If she's attracted to you but doesn't feel safe around you she
won't answer your phone calls and/or actually go out with you,
despite any signals she sends that she likes you.

Women are "security seeking creatures".  

They are more circumspect when it comes to potential for
physical harm than we are. It's amazing how many women live
their lives in fear.

When in doubt, we should err on the side of helping a woman
feel safe and comfortable...from the very moment we meet her.

There's not really a "stage", as some PUAs suggest, during
any particular interaction with a woman that you "build comfort".  

It has to be in effect from the very first second and remain
throughout your entire relationship with her.

Now obviously, when starting a conversation with a woman you
want to get her to talk about herself rather than doing all the
talking, especially if you end up going on and on to her about
yourself.   We've covered that extensively in the past.

Here is a golden strategy when making conversation with a
woman to help her feel more comfortable with you.

It's simple but magical, easy to remember, and will transform
your fortunes with women.

When getting a woman to talk about herself be sure to
avoid "why" questions, especially in response to something
she says she did or something she prefers.

Whenever we ask someone "why" they did something or
prefer something or have a certain opinion on something it
comes off as if we're questioning their judgment or even
belittling them for it.


Examples:


Her:  "Well, I work for Insurance Company X."

You:  "Why did you choose to work there?"


Or...


Her:  "I drive a little Volkswagen Beetle."

You:  "Why would you drive one of those?"


"Why" questions put someone on the defensive.  That's
NEVER a secure feeling.

The worst part about a "why" question is it signals potential
confrontation and/or "silent" judgment.  

Since the perception you're thinking negatively about her is
"under the radar" and as yet unspoken, the net negative
impact on her comfort level with you is actually WORSE than
if you had told her you thought her job or her car were terrible.

Ironic, isn't it?  After all, most of us don't intend to come off
that way.  In our mind, we're just asking open-ended
questions and making all the right moves.

Contrast the vibe surrounding "why" questions with that
created by simple teasing, which doesn't come off as
confrontational.  

This is because she knows where you stand and presumes
you're purposefully bantering with her for the sake of pure
playfulness.


Examples:


Her:  "Well, I work for Insurance Company X."

You:  "That's a shame.  Company Y is who I go with, so now
you can't get me an extra discount using your feminine charm."


Or...


Her:  "I drive a little Volkswagen Beetle."

You:  "Oh geez...what a GIRL car.  I bet you'll even trade it in for
a minivan someday when you have a bunch of babies."


If teasing banter isn't really a part of your personality, no
worries.  You can focus instead on asking "what" or "how"
questions instead of "why" questions:


Examples:


Her:  "Well I work for Insurance Company X."

You:  "Really?  What exciting superhuman heroics do you
perform on the job all day?"


Or...


Her:  "I drive a little Volkswagen Beetle."

You:  "No kidding?  How do those things handle on the
racetrack?  I would think if you drift it too hard around the
corner the daisies would fly out of the vase on the
dashboard."


OK, OK...obviously, I've got too much "teasing banter" in my
DNA to leave well enough alone.  

But note how "what" and "how" questions indicate more of a
curious intrigue on your part than signaling imminent
confrontation like "why" questions do.

It's all about her emotional response to the nature of the
conversation YOU are leading.

If she feels she genuinely intrigues you, she'll feel MORE
comfortable with you.

Contrast that with what she'd feel if you were to challenge
her in a confrontational way with "why" questions.

If you are a masculine "big four" man who creates attraction by
your very presence (tone of voice, how you carry yourself, being
relaxed, etc.) then using "what" or "how" questions instead of
"why" questions will be like pure catnip to women.

Finding a man who actually cares about who she is and what
she is into in addition to what she looks like is every beautiful
woman's dream.

Note that I've not mentioned gushing compliments her way or
interjecting "sexual innuendo" into the conversation.

I solemnly promise your masculine presence PLUS simple
intrigue--even free of any focus on sexual themes--WILL
intrigue her in return.  

After all, she's following your lead.  Deserve what you want.

Sexual interest will follow soon enough, and likely WAY sooner
than if you forced the issue.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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