[X&Y] Do This ONE Thing And Be More Attractive Immediately

Published: Tue, 09/08/20


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IN THIS EDITION:  One of the best ways to immediately boost your
attractiveness to women is to lose this devastatingly bad habit.

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DO THIS ONE THING AND  BE MORE ATTRACTIVE IMMEDIATELY


I've got a somewhat disarming surprise for you.  The title of this
newsletter isn't simply some "rah rah" statement meant to serve as
a one-liner pep talk.

It's the actual solution.

I'm sure you've noticed that COVID, lockdowns, unrest in the streets,
lost jobs and the race to November 3rd is making people crankier,
surlier and edgier than usual.

It's like the pandemic within the pandemic, right?

Well, don't let yourself get "infected".

The point-blank truth is that if you're in the habit of finding
fault in most everything and then ranting about it, then women
aren't going to find you interesting at all.

While it's true that negativity is a general turn-off for just
about everyone, that's not even the whole story.

In a woman's eyes, the problem with men who are complainers is
that they appear HELPLESS.

They occur as lacking personal power.

That's because the complainer gets frustrated and bent out of
shape over something that he perceives he either can't change or
doesn't even want to deal with at all.
 
And if he can't handle life's trivial challenges, then he's
obviously in no condition to be a protector and a provider.

Yep...it all comes down to that once again.

So this is very, very real.  The very moment you make the decision
not to complain about things, you improve your chances with women.

Set a mental trigger in your mind so that you immediately catch
yourself whenever tempted to launch into a negative tirade on some
trivial thing.

Whenever the alarm goes off whack yourself upside the head.  Make
it stop.

Now, as usual there IS a twist to this whole conversation, however.

Men who constantly paint on a happy face no matter what--even when
something negative is going on--are every bit as unattractive to
women as complainers are.

That's because when the chips are down and something bad really
is going on, if you pass it off as a non-event and keep smiling
women will be flat-out disgusted.

Again, this is because you'll be perceived as lacking power.

You'll be like the ostrich who buries its head in the sand
believing that the problem has disappeared.

So as you can see, the concept of negative people being a bummer
aside, the major issue here really lies in coming off as impotent
rather than willing and able to lead.

A "big four" man differentiates himself from both complainers and
ostriches by acknowledging when a problem exists, calmly
accepting the reality of the situation and most importantly suggesting
a solution and implementing it.

There you go:  The tipping point between being unattractive and
making women hot for you in this case comes at the moment you
suggest a proactive PLAN and seek to execute upon it.
 
Unattractive men complain.  The guy who is "all talk and no
action" makes women roll their eyes.

Meanwhile, attractive men recognize problems and solve them. 
They're the heroes to high quality women everywhere.


 
 



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