[X&Y] Feeling Overwhelmed With Getting Better With Women?

Published: Wed, 09/16/20

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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Have you ever felt overwhelmed when it comes to
the process of learning about women and succeeding with them? 
Rest assured you're not alone...and believe me, there's good news.

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Some of you flat-out can't believe I'd openly endorse such a thing.

Some of you think I'm crazy.

Some of you are even angry.

Most of you are just plain old skeptical.

Remember...not long ago I was just as skeptical, if not even MORE
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That's what I did.  First at a wine tasting event, where Emily was
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Was I seeing things?

I wore the stuff to the bank the next day to do a wire transfer.

The fully-grown woman in a professional business suit across the
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After I had left she called me and told me, "If there is ANYTHING
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LETTER FROM A READER


Hello Scot:
 

I have several sticking points.

The first is confusion.  There's just a TON of advice out there.

Then, when what sounds like good advice on a web page doesn't
immediately translate in the real world, I start thinking "I will
never get this".

This often leads to having a hard time trusting in the method.  In
other words, I have a hard time getting to the point where I think
my approach has a chance of success.  I feel like I'd just rather
skip the painful trial and error.

Both of the above probably aren't helped by my deep fears around
publicly approaching hot women.  Some positive thinking tips just
don't seem to stop my body from going into a visible freeze up.

What do you think?


Kevin (Northern Ireland)




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Hello Kevin:

I hear you man.  It sounds like you're experiencing a classic case
of overwhelm

It's easy to feel that way when confronted with what seems like a
LOT to learn...all at once.  It's natural for that to make you
just want to throw up your hands and say "forget it".

But I want to reassure you first by letting you know that you most
certainly do not have to pressure yourself into getting everything
down by tomorrow morning.

You really don't have to ace all of this on the first try. 

Even though there's indeed A LOT of great content available to
you, mastering it doesn't have to be viewed as "painful trial and
error". 

Nor does it even have to LOOK like it.

The good news is that every single bit of what you learn--from
the first day onward--will be helping you get better with women
today than you were yesterday.  

As such, you'll see results almost immediately, even if you'll be
seeing even more of the full benefits in a few weeks or months. 

And if you really do freeze up around beautiful women today,
you'll be able to feel yourself moving in the right direction.

You know, it's not only okay to pace yourself a bit, it's
actually a GOOD THING to do so.

One of the joys of this life is that the journey is often as much
fun as getting to the destination...as long as we allow it to be.

I know for me, I look back at the three years or so I spent getting
better and better with women to the point where I felt I had
raised the bar as high as it could go and consider them some of
the greatest years of my life.

I hadn't met Emily yet, but every little increase in success along
the way was a total thrill.  Had I woken up the day after I first
made the decision to get better with women and met Emily, I would
have missed out on a lot of great experiences along the way.

I realize that we all THINK we would love to meet the greatest
woman we ever met today, but when you have the mindset that the
journey itself is going to be a total blast you can really free
yourself up from a world of pressure.

Think about it...once you see the very first thing you learn
actually work for you in the real world, it's going to be a TOTAL
RUSH.  That'll motivate you to learn the next thing.

I distinctly remember it being that way for me...and it ROCKED.

Now, I fully realize that our modern world is one where immediate
gratification is prized highly.  Most of the products you see
advertised in the world of men's dating and seduction advice are
promising things like this:


  "Say three simple words and have sex tonight with the hottest
  woman you've ever met, and sleep with a different one every night
  for the rest of your life.  It doesn't matter how much of a loser you
  are, and you won't have to spend any money.  You don't even
  have to leave your chair."



And to be truthful, a lot of guys buy into that sort of promise
even if what they're really looking for is a high quality woman to
live the dream with.

Well, make no mistake about it.  "Deserve What You Want" is the
concept that X & Y Communications was built on, and that's why I'm
not only unashamed to actually PRINT your letter, Kevin, but am
responding honestly to it as well.

Nope.  You'll likely not be able to assimilate everything right now
and have it all firing on all cylinders for you by dinnertime.
I'll never promise you that.

BUT...that said, here's the thing:  I certainly don't want you to get
intimidated by the wealth of information to be gleaned in my programs
or any other of the great ones I recommend and simply throw in the
towel.

Not only will you see SOME results quickly, it probably won't take
you NEARLY as long to get the full benefit as you think.

The best news of all is that if you can stick with the program
early on--even while you're feeling that sensation of "overwhelm
you'll quickly figure out that the pieces are starting to come
together faster than you thought. 

"Overwhelm" will gradually morph into "confidence".

Let me tell you, it's like this for most areas of life that involve
gaining competence over time.

I can look back to when I started learning how to play the guitar,
surf or (ahem) get better with women and recall feeling the exact
same way.

But it's been a blast getting better and better at each of those
skill sets along the way.

And I promise that if you want to meet higher quality women sooner
than later, Kevin, mastering how to do so not only worked for me
but also for thousands of other guys.

You'll get better with women.  Before you realize it, it'll all be
second nature.
 
Go ahead and dive in, and enjoy the journey.  And please do
send me your success stories along the way.  I love to hear them.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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