[X&Y] Sandbaggers
Published: Fri, 10/16/20
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IN THIS EDITION: Today I'm going to reveal yet another simple mindset
change that will result in massive gains for you when it comes to
success with women.
change that will result in massive gains for you when it comes to
success with women.
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BE CHARMING, GET THE GIRL
Today I'm going to throw a somewhat unique twist on the typical
discussion about how to "get the girl".
When you come right down to it, it's about being charming.
"Charm" is really nothing more than being likable. It makes perfect
sense that when women LIKE you, you're going to do well with them.
And if they like you in a sexually charged way, so much the better.
Obviously, knowing how to charm women is a mission-critical skillset
to acquire.
My Female Persuasion program remains the absolute best (and
most straightforward) plan for making women love you:
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It's one of my most popular programs for good reason. And right
now is a great time to finally get your hands on it.
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That way, you'll make women love you AND have the bold confidence
to maximize all of those opportunities.
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This all-new promo expires tomorrow night, so be sure to take
advantage of it while it's going on. This is a great chance to see a
jaw-dropping transformation in the way women respond to you...and
it's a LOT of fun.
Go ahead and give it a shot. My 365-day guarantee is for real so
you can't lose.
Today I'm going to throw a somewhat unique twist on the typical
discussion about how to "get the girl".
When you come right down to it, it's about being charming.
"Charm" is really nothing more than being likable. It makes perfect
sense that when women LIKE you, you're going to do well with them.
And if they like you in a sexually charged way, so much the better.
Obviously, knowing how to charm women is a mission-critical skillset
to acquire.
My Female Persuasion program remains the absolute best (and
most straightforward) plan for making women love you:
50% Off Female Persuasion + Invincible
It's one of my most popular programs for good reason. And right
now is a great time to finally get your hands on it.
As you'll soon find out below, I'm in a great mood today. So I'm giving
you 50% off Female Persuasion, PLUS also giving you my newest
program Invincible with it.
That way, you'll make women love you AND have the bold confidence
to maximize all of those opportunities.
50% Off Female Persuasion + Invincible
This all-new promo expires tomorrow night, so be sure to take
advantage of it while it's going on. This is a great chance to see a
jaw-dropping transformation in the way women respond to you...and
it's a LOT of fun.
Go ahead and give it a shot. My 365-day guarantee is for real so
you can't lose.
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SANDBAGGERS
X & Y Communications is a thriving operation. As such, guys often
come to me for help with starting an online business of their own.
I realize you're reading this newsletter to get practical advice on
getting better with women, so stay with me here. I promise that's
what this is about.
You see, there is a curious parallel between the state of mind
people adopt when they want to "be their own boss" and when
they'd like to "get the girl".
I often refer to "get laid quick" marketing hype as the "get rich
quick" scheme of the dating world.
It's not that I have anything against finding success quickly.
The problem comes when we believe it has to be ultimate
success from day one, or "no go".
For example, advertisements for programs on starting your own
business feature slogans like, "fire the boss TODAY".
Guess what? The first X & Y Communications newsletter was in
December of 2005. I didn't officially leave my job in the corporate
world until September of 2006.
That's right. I didn't "fire the boss" before getting my business
rolling. I did plenty of trial and error and made lots of mistakes
before I was ready to cut the safety net.
Ironically, the "firie the boss TODAY" mindset is what keeps most
people from EVER giving the ol' tyrant the "heave ho" at all.
"Today" never seems to present itself. That's because
"today" will never, ever happen in ONE day.
"today" will never, ever happen in ONE day.
Read that last line again. It's sort of obvious when you really
think about it, yet almost nobody looks at it that way.
We expect immediate gratification because we're told to.
Anything less than "today" quickly leads to a perception (and
therefore acceptance) of immediate frustration instead.
And that's why most people give up...quickly.
Yes, this exact mindset pervades how we think about getting
better with women, too.
But we'll get there ONE step at a time. Rome wasn't built in a day,
but it WAS built in a reasonable time frame.Just like I didn't jump off a ledge the day I started X & Y
Communications, I didn't wake up the day after my divorce asking
how to hook up with an SI swimsuit model within the next 24 hours
or bust.
What it all comes down to might surprise you.
That poisonous mindset of achieving at the "top level" right now
or not at all isn't born of healthy motivation and ambition.
That's an illusion.
You might want to sit down for this. I think it's actually all
about tree-hugging our excuses rather than doing something
proactive to make things better.
If we can't flip the boss "the bird" right now and walk off into
the sunset at the helm of our new $10M per year online business,
then we'll wait until we can...even if we haven't bothered with
learning the first step.
Therefore, we're sort of comfortable waiting forever.
Similarly, that's how we get used to talking to ZERO women at all.
Even when I used to race BMX at the national level there were
guys who remained at the intermediate skill level rather than
moving up to expert class, even though they were finishing on the
podium at just about every race.
podium at just about every race.
Why? Because they didn't think they should "turn ex" until they
could beat the guy who's the National #1 expert racer.
We called those excuse-mongers "sandbaggers".
Meanwhile, those of us who entered the expert class took our
lumps at first as "moto filler". But what do you know? Little by
little we got faster over time, mostly because we were forced to
step up to the increased level of competition.
Are you "sandbagging" when it comes to getting better with
women? If so, put away the unreasonable need to have it all
done by tomorrow morning and take that small step of doing
something today.
That SOMETHING can be ANYTHING. You've read enough of my
newsletters by now, or perhaps gone through a program or two of
mine.
As such, you have SOMETHING to go on.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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