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IN THIS EDITION:  Are you careful to make sure you "fit in with the
crowd"?  If so, you'd probably better read this...fast.

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COULD THIS BE THE BEST OF THEM ALL?

Did you know that over 75% of my programs are bought by guys
who already have one of my other programs?

That's because I over-deliver on value, which is obvious as soon
as you dig in.

But THEN...the results come fast.  That's even better.

Here's what you may not know, however.

Although I get tons of success stories in my inbox, the messages I
get from guys who have Online Dating Domination really stand
out.

That's because the results they get are SO concrete and SO real...
and they happen SO fast:

  "I've been at this online dating thing for years, I think I was
  match.com's first member. I might as well have had the user
  name 'crickets' because that's what my inbox would sound like.

  Have a look at this screen shot - it pretty much sums it up.
  Great program once again McKay.

  Hey, when you go from being incredibly skeptical about online
  dating to having four dates in one weekend, it's pretty obvious
  something's working, right?"

  Joe (Denver, CO)

The screen shot showed multiple messages from eight different
women in the past day and a half.

I have to admit, curiosity got the best of me and I looked up
some of the usernames.  ALL are very attractive, sexy women.

If you've been beating your head against the wall writing first
e-mails that seem to get sucked into a black hole, it's going to
make you very happy when somewhere between 50 and 80
percent of them start getting answered instead...almost overnight.

...Especially when they're all from beautiful, sexy sweethearts.

I'm not going to say that Online Dating Domination is my best
program, but I will say this...

Online dating is where I've had my greatest successes with women
personally, and it's probably the area of "dating science" that I know
about even more than any other.

Add it all up and it's no wonder that even guys who've all but
given up on online dating end up with more women than they ever
guessed was possible in record time.

It's all thanks to this:

https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/odd-50off

And in case you've been hiding under a rock for the past several
days, there has never been a better time to acquire Online Dating
Domination than right now.

That's because the 50% off special is still on for a another
day, and you still get The Man's Approach for free with it.

That means you're all set to meet fantastic women online OR
offline:

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I've added full sections on how to master apps like Tinder, how
to master The Projection Profile method and even how to outsmart
scammers.

There are also new updates to the now infamous "50 First E-Mails
Section" and "The Fast Track List", giving you MORE power to
attract women with the written word than ever.

With the Holidays in high gear,  women are out there waiting for
you, and there are a LOT of them.

Yet another guy wrote me last week telling me he's going out with
a local TV newsgirl, who he met on OK Cupid.  Crazy, I tell you.

If you don't meet them someone else will.

The benefits to you here are ENDLESS.  It's time to make a high
quality woman's day--and your own:

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"HI, I'M ERIC.  'GEN-ERIC', THAT IS."

Okay...before we get too far into this, I'm going to make something
that should already be pretty obvious even more crystal clear.

That's this:  If you're a total freakazoid-approved weirdo, you're
not going to attract high quality women.  

I trust that makes sense to you, especially considering how much
safety and security matters to women.

So no, you don't want to stand out from the crowd so much that you,
say, encourage FBI surveillance and/or scare small children.

But on the other hand, here's something else that's mission
critical to know.  

If you blend into the faceless crowd just a little TOO effectively,
you'll have pegged the "safe and secure" meter in the opposite
direction from the "bizarre space oddity" realm.

You'll be TOO "safe" at that point, which is an attraction killer
in its own right.  Your name might as well be "Eric".

You know, as in "GEN-Eric".

See, if a woman finds you "generic" it telegraphs to her that you
probably:

  1)  Lack the creativity to bring opportunity for fun, exciting
  experiences into her life.

  2)  Don't give much thought to how you portray yourself, and
  therefore you probably have zero ambition.

  3)  Haven't had an original thought in years.

  4)  Are a follower rather than a leader.  (Ouch...that's the killer,
  isn't it?)

Just the other day I was listening to a woman who was about 23 or
so talk about the kind of guys she'd been meeting lately.

"I'm not kidding...", she said, "if I could tell these guys anything,
it would be that it's okay to wear something other than black jeans
and an 'Affliction' t-shirt."

By "Affliction t-shirt", my educated guess is that she also meant
"Ed Hardy t-shirt".  Or "Tapout" t-shirt. 

And had she been about 35 or so, she may as well have said,
"Dockers slacks and a polo shirt".

Let's just be realistic here, guys.  Most of us would think of
taking no other route than to "play it safe"...whatever that means
for us relative to our age, ethnicity, our social circle and/or
where we happen to live.

After all, we don't tend to be all that fashion conscious.  We
simply take quick and dirty "fly-by" cues from what we see around
us and do likewise, like "sheeple".

For the most part, we'd much rather mitigate against the risk of
looking flat-out foolish than push the envelope with regard to how
"normal" we seem.

But that way of thinking is killing our chances with women.

Think about it:  The vast majority of guys are NOT getting women,
are they?  Yet they all look like carbon copies of each other out
there.

Gentlemen, you just can't "blend in" as if wearing some sort of
social camouflage and expect women to notice you.

Being generic is NOT being "big four".  Following the herd doesn't
inspire a woman to believe that you'll be able to handle crisis
situations like a man.  It doesn't cause you to appear as if you
can "think on your feet".

Being conventional won't get you exceptional results with women any
more than the dreaded comma-delimited list of adjectives will on
your online dating profile.

So what's a guy to do?  Do we have to "peacock" at clubs to stand
out like it's 2005?

Well, ironically, at this point in history even that's actually more of a
generic thing to do.  Trying too hard to come off like a "player" is so,
well..."played".

And therein lies the biggest clue of how to proceed.

You don't want to try too hard.  That is, you don't want to go out
of your way either to stand out OR to fit in.

How elegant of a concept is that?

Try this instead:  Give it all some thought, and simply present
yourself as you'd LIKE to be represented.  

If you like a particular hairstyle, get it.  

If you ever enter a store where you like most of the clothes, get
some--even if the stuff is a bit "funkier" than you usually have the
nerve to go for.

Better yet, choose clothes and accessories that actually fit in well
with your hobbies, passions and other lifestyle elements.

The point is to make your style yours.  Neither overemphasize
being "different" nor underemphasize your individuality.   

Rather, simply have the guts to wear and do what you want to do,
and be who you really want to be--all with an eye for remaining
socially acceptable, if not socially invisible.

Can you see the difference there between the two?

How amazing is it to know that in a very real way you can represent
loudly and clearly that you have original thoughts and decision
making autonomy...just by literally being true to yourself.

A sound mind and even the slightest tolerance for risking something
new go a long way.  The "happy medium" between generic and
outrageous is where it's at for men who know how to attract women.

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