[X&Y] Say This When Meeting A Woman. It's Perfect.
Published: Sat, 11/28/20
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THE LAZIEST DAY OF THE YEAR STRIKES AGAIN
Promises, promises...
Despite announcing "the best deal ever", at least three of my
favorite outdoor gear companies only sent me a lousy 10%
coupon yesterday.
Other Black Friday deals were really no better. Some were
worse.
I mean, I realize the day after Thanksgiving is probably the
laziest day in the known universe. And that goes double for
this year, no doubt.
But I was getting messages with subject lines like, "Here Is
Your Black Friday Special".
Right...I wonder how their marketing guy does at online dating?
Obviously, none of those people are from Texas.
Here we believe BIGGER is BETTER.
This comes once per year, so I'm forking over everything
in the X & Y Communications arsenal--including the
upcoming Un-Settled audio version--for 89% off.
Listen, I completely understand if you've been trapped under
a pile of emails--or even leftovers--for two days.
If so, you may not have noticed I brought a flippin' .44 Magnum
to what was otherwise a "Black Friday" water pistol fest:
"Go Ahead, Make My Day"
But those of you who did crack open my "Black Friday"
message have already dove into this ridiculousness like
it was Hugh Hefner's jacuzzi.
And since everything is indeed bigger here in Texas, I've
left the door open all weekend on this monster...until
midnight tomorrow night Pacific time.
As a reminder, you get 89% off of the entire collection
of e-books and programs we've EVER produced.
With the brand new addition of Un-Settled, you have
absolutely every angle covered, from a "new normal" where
you reclaim your bold, masculine presence all the way to living
the dream with the greatest woman ever--and everything in
between.
AND...just for good measure, I'm giving you a full 365 days
of Power Sessions for free just so you can ask me any other
questions you might still have.
AND..a live 1-on-1 Laser Coaching session is included this
time around.
It's $2112 worth of goodness in one fell swoop. You no
longer have to try to figure out which program to start off
with. You'll have them all.
Here's the link. You can use it through tomorrow night,
at which time the "doorbusting" festivities must cease:
Busted Doors? I Took A Flamethrower To This Place
Even though it's 89% off, do you want to split it up over
three months anyway? No worries. You can choose that
option and it won't cost you a dime extra:
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I guarantee you'll feel like a kid in a candy store when you
gain access to the Member's Portal...
...and even MORE so when your inevitable transformation
with women happens. This is one of those deals you score
and still talk about how psyched you are ten years from now.
A NOTE FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ALREADY GOT
THE "ALL FIFTEEN" BUNDLE
Some of you have emailed me crying foul. You have all
15 programs already. And NOW look...this Black Friday
special is jam-packed with a whole lot of other valuable
goodies.
No worries, I created an Extras Package for you. It gets
you the multitude of powerful additions above and beyond
the 15 major programs.
And yes, the discount is MASSIVE for you (just to say
"thanks", since it IS Thanksgiving).
I've listed out everything you get here, just to be clear:
The Extras Package
Others of you said you only need a few of the programs in
order to have them all. Complete Your Collection has
been temporarily activated for you...and again, the deal is
a fantastic one:
Complete Your Collection
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SOMETHING PERFECT TO SAY WHEN MEETING A WOMAN
I figured it was time for a haircut yesterday, so I went to the same
chick who cuts my hair as usual.
It was late afternoon on the day after a major holiday, and she
had been busy as hell on her feet all day.
The simple truth that she was pretty much spent and ready to go
home was written all over her face.
When my turn came, it occurred to me to say a phrase I've had
in my back pocket for several years now, for use on just such an
occasion.
"So...what do you know that's good?"
She responded with a rather forlorn, "Good? I'm going to have to
think about that one."
Without missing a beat I said, "Well, I'm not interested in hearing
anything bad, so out with it."
Gazing upward in a quick moment of thought, she looked back at me
and shrugged. "Well, the weekend is here, huh?"
"That's GOOD" , I said, probably with a slightly victorious grin on
my face.
The corner of her mouth turned up ever so slightly. She laughed
out loud, in a way that was eerily reminiscent of how women often
laugh right after they've finished crying.
Success. I had "brought out the playful" in her.
It works virtually every time.
Now remember, I can't take a whole lot of credit for this whole
exchange. It just sort of came to me a few years ago when I
first tried it.
But looking back on it, the real value of opening a conversation
with a woman in the manner I just described is that it pretty much
eliminates any reasonable possibility of getting a negative
response in return, doesn't it?
Think of it. If you ask ANY red-blooded human being (female or
otherwise) "what they know that's good" and get a surly, negative
or even insulting answer, what can you immediately conclude?
If you said, "it's THEM and not ME, for sure" give yourself a
prize.
Check it out...just about anyone can find himself or herself in "a
mood" after a long, frustrating day. If you say any old generic
thing to someone in that state, it theoretically might not end well.
But when you casually, but directly get them on the track of thinking
of what's GOOD, most decent people WILL check themselves before
ripping you a new one verbally.
Anyone but a raging psychopath would feel horrible if they didn't.
By now you know that I'm not much into memorizing "openers", at
least in the tired, old pickup sense. But sure, go ahead and try out
the strategy I just suggested for yourself and let me know how it
goes.
It's simple enough, and when you get right down to it it's not
really about the order of the words or even the "line" itself at
all. It's about the vibe.
Mean and negative people suck, and most people DON'T want to be
downers, whether they think they can help it in the moment or not.
But I think the real beauty of asking, "What do you know that's good?"
is that it leads in a positive direction, yet in a way that
subcommunicates masculine confidence and character rather than
some sort of lame "Mr. Nice Guy" neediness.
What we're talking about here is lightening a woman up AND igniting
her femininity, all in one easy step.
I've recently started to refer to that magical combo as "warm levity"
And what do you know? That's good.
Be Good
Scot McKay
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