[X&Y] Do Good Looking Guys Get All The Breaks?

Published: Tue, 12/15/20



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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Do you have to be a "prettyboy" to
attract beautiful women?  The answer will shock you.

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LOOKS VS. PERSONALITY--DO THE GOOD LOOKING GUYS
GET ALL THE BREAKS WITH WOMEN?


There's plenty of debate as to whether women want looks or
personality more from guys.

As you probably know, I'm far from the most handsome guy in the
world.

Indeed, a very small percentage of guys out there are the type
that women will gawk at because of how "gorgeous" we are.

That leaves the rest of us.

And most of us tend to start from a baseline thought process of,
"Hey, there's no way I can compete with that other guy.  After all,
he's obviously what every woman wants...and I'm NOT."

Well wait a second.

How accurate are our perceptions, anyway?

If you think about it logically, who are WE to figure out what
WOMEN want?

My educated guess is that most of us take our own criteria for
evaluating women and project it onto the female population.

That is, because we want a beautiful woman, we assume women
want a physically attractive guy above all else.

OK, so what if I told you it would take both hands to count the
number of guys I know who look like models but who also can't
get a second date with a woman?

Obviously, that's not "success with women" from a relationship
management perspective.

So what gives?

Let's do some Chick Whispering here.

First of all, consider how the standard of physical beauty put
forth by the media has caused many women to literally obsess
over their looks--as if that's where their entire worth lies.

Perhaps ironically, the more beautiful the woman, the more she
feels compelled to live up to this "standard".

And since the "standard" is cruelly perfect, there are A LOT of
particularly hot women out there with low self-esteem.

In walks the most handsome guy she has ever seen.

Her first thought could be, "I can't compete with that." (Sound
familiar?)

If she actually ends up on a date with him, and he gets all the
attention, she might not be able to handle it.

In short...lots of beautiful women cannot handle a man who is
"prettier" than they are.

But there's more.

Like some beautiful women feel that they have no need to
develop their personalities to get a man, some guys who have
benefited from the "halo effect" all their lives because of their
looks often get lazy in their own right.

Either they are boring, downright selfish, and/or flat-out I/Js
(Idiot/Jerks) as a direct result.

If you run through the file cards in your mind, you can picture
some guys who are exactly like what I'm describing here.

So where does this leave the highest quality women?

You guessed it:  With someone else.

A man who is average in looks but who does the best with what
he's got is the guy who gets the overall highest quality women.

This has been proven time and time again.

What do I mean?

Well, if you want to get high quality women, you do have to brush
your teeth, keep your fingernails clean, get a sense of style, and
mix in some Dolce & Gabbana cologne or something.

You've got to do the best with what you've got.

THEN...you get the "big four" right.

Not having been spoiled by the "prettyboy" treatment your whole
life, you work on being a confident, masculine man who knows
how to create a sense of comfort and security in a woman.

And you remain a man of character, doing what is right even
when nobody is watching.

The end result?  Great women become mesmerized by you.

They get to revel in the fact that they are the vision of femininity
and--yes--beauty by your side.   They know you appreciate that
in them.

But more importantly, by maximizing your appearance (whatever
that means for you) and getting the "big four" handled, you have
accomplished something remarkable.

You have raised your level to that of the top one or two percent of
all men in a woman's eyes.

And remember, it's often more challenging for a naturally good-
looking man to get there than it is for a guy with more "average"
looks.

Meanwhile, the guys who are betting the farm on their Hollywood
looks are left to continue wondering how on Earth the second
dates aren't happening.

So think of it...

The guy who ISN'T "blessed" with model-quality looks may be
MORE LIKELY to genuinely attract the highest echelon of women
out there.

And moreover, he might have a better chance at solid long-term
relationship success also.

Can you believe this?  And more importantly, can you ACT ON IT
and become the guy who deserves what he wants?

Those of you who are Power Sessions members will get a
special MP3 with much more on this subject later this
evening.

Let me know what you think.  And I'll talk to you again soon.


Be Good,

Scot McKay





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