[X&Y] She Tells You How Many Other Guys Want Her
Published: Wed, 01/06/21
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IN THIS EDITION: Yeah, yeah...every guy in town wants her, and
she's making sure YOU know it. What's the point?
she's making sure YOU know it. What's the point?
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SHE TELLS YOU HOW MANY OTHER GUYS WANT HER
Most guys completely dismiss their chances with certain women. It's
as if they're looking for an excuse to bail out.
The "Too Good To Be True Factor" makes us talk ourselves out of
success with women before even giving them a chance to form their
own opinion.
Because it's hard to visualize success, we automatically assume it
CAN'T happen. Therefore, we sabotage ourselves just to make
sure we're right about that.
We're our own worst enemy.
Pretty sick, isn't it?
But sometimes we even go so far as to interpret POSITIVE signs
as NEGATIVES.
These cases are the most tragic ones because the woman herself is
left wondering what the heck just happened.
Both people lose out on getting to know each other, even though
they WANTED that to happen. He makes a wholly incorrect
assumption, and she ends up feeling "rejected".
Man, what a tangled web we weave, huh?
Here's an objective example of an indicator of solid interest that
most guys misinterpret as the opposite.
That's when a woman starts telling you how many guys she has
interested in her, especially if she makes it a point to do so.
Just to clear the air, I'll fully acknowledge it's a mistake for a
woman to do that. I mean, it's a bad idea for anyone--woman
OR man--to say or do anything that's likely to be misconstrued
socially.
But rest assured nonetheless, women really have no idea you're
taking such statements as code for, "Hey, get lost...I have enough
guys trying to hit on me already. They'll never get anywhere, and
you won't either."
Unless she's as overtly blunt and negative about the matter as
quoted above, you should open your eyes to a potentially
different interpretation of what she's saying...yet most likely the
intended one.
You see, it's overwhelmingly likely that she's bringing the
matter to your attention in an attempt to increase her value in
your eyes.
That's because she LIKES YOU and hopes you'll LIKE HER.
Let me illustrate this for you.
If you're from the US or the UK and have ever rented a car
elsewhere (e.g. Europe, the Pacific Rim or the Middle East) you'll
quickly notice something as you try to find familiar music on the
radio dial.
People in non-English speaking countries really do love American
and British pop music.
BUT...they're WAY behind the timeline. And when they decide
they like a particular song, they REALLY, REALLY like it.
A number of years ago when we did a road trip around southern
Europe, the French and the Spaniards had just discovered "Call
Me Maybe" by Carli Rae Jepson.
Good God Man. We couldn't avoid that shiznit for 2000 miles
worth of roadtripping. International borders couldn't even ease
the pain.
OK, so making lemonade out of lemons, I made an interesting
observation. Check out this lyric from the song:
"And all the other boys try to chase me, but here's my number
...so call me, maybe?"
...so call me, maybe?"
Aha...see that? The girl clearly likes the guy...a LOT. And before
giving him her number, she drops EXACTLY the kind of line I'm
talking about here.
Rhetorically speaking, she's clearly NOT hoping the guy "gets
lost".
So like other women who would have us know how popular they are
with other dudes, she's attempting to tap into the power of perceived
social proof to gain approval.
You know, just in case this guy isn't yet in the fold with those who
quickly adore her.
Can you see how that's working there?
As all good salespeople know, people buy on the approval of
others.
Following logically, you can now see that it's all nothing more than
good old-fashioned approval seeking.
Yes...it's of the same ill-advised type that tends to make people look
needy or even desperate when overplayed.
There you have another reason why women probably shouldn't play
that particular card.
But alas, they do. And they sure LOVE to, don't they?
Well, from now on you'll know what she's REALLY trying to tell you
when that happens.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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