[X&Y] How To Turn Valentine's Day Into A Clear Advantage
Published: Thu, 02/04/21
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IN THIS EDITION: Today is February 4th, and it's time
to acknowledge that Valentine's Day is upon us. Allow
me to surprise you with a take on the whole thing that
you might not expect from me.
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HOW TO TURN VALENTINE'S DAY INTO A CLEAR
ADVANTAGE
You know, I might feel like an insufficient dweeb this
Valentine's Day had I not dropped a two-carat rock on
Emily for Groundhog Day over the weekend.
Not.
Okay, I'm not going to go on that rant. But chalk that
brief outburst up to my pet peeve regarding how
diamonds are marketed so heavily anytime there's a
holiday around.
Here's the real point. The de rigueur stance among
stylish dating experts these days tends to be to blast
Valentine's Day and everything it stands for.
Me? I'm thinking I'm still on the fence.
I mean, maybe Valentine's Day can be kind of "nice",
but only if you are in a steady relationship.
Well, as long as that's a happy, fulfilling relationship.
And THEN only if your significant other isn't, well, a
selfish narcissist who packs a smokin' sense of
entitlement.
And ONLY if you are in the particularly ill-advised
and ineffective habit of depending on a calendar to
tell you when it's time to stoke some extra passion
and romance.
But then again, THAT would only mean you're
probably trying to force-feed warm, fuzzy, romantic
feelings into a specific time and place instead of
letting them happen naturally and spontaneously...
...which never ends well.
So wait a minute, that adds up to NOBODY (except
for opportunistic women...and that's a BIG "maybe")
really benefiting from Valentine's Day, huh?
Okay, so I tried to be optimistic here. But you can
see how that's nearly impossible.
Therefore, I'm in solidarity with all the other stylish
dating coaches, I suppose.
The truth is Valentine's Day confronts us with a
major crater in our schedule that demands to be
filled.
Either that, or the opposite--a massive obstacle
that must be overcome.
What do I mean?
Well obviously, anyone who is dateless on (or
around) Valentine's Day is likely pouring mostly
imagined social pressure on him or (especially)
herself. That's obvious.
But even people who are living wildly successful
dating lives are faced with a potentially serious
plot complication around February 14th if they
are dating several people at the same time.
Ever thought about that one?
It seems mandatory that vaultloads of money
are to be spent.
Worse, your hierarchy of "favorites" could be
exposed to the cold scrutiny of everyone involved.
We're on record around here as being full
supporters of dating more than one person at
once. Life is too short to let serial exclusivity run
its course one person at a time.
The goal is to deserve what one wants, which
involves practice, leading to a solid level of
experience in evaluating what one wants in a
potential long-term relationship.
But since Valentine's Day is specifically defined
on the calendar, one's priorities will show through
(since we're in the holiday spirit) like a red thong
under a white skirt.
So how can this issue be dealt with effectively?
Well, you could tell everyone involved that you're
going to "just say no" to Valentine's Day this year.
Hey, it has been done before.
But I'll tell you straight-up that the women you're
dating will ALL feel de-prioritized by that
pronouncement. Somehow, that you would
bypass V-day altogether is just hard to believe
for most women.
What you CAN do, however, is set expectations
(especially with people you haven't been dating
for very long) that there's no pressure to spend
lots of money.
Hey, if you've got extra ca$h to drop and can
pull off doing so without coming off as a needy
approval-seeker, go for it.
But for the rest of us, this simple matter of clear
communication makes much more sense. Most
women will be relieved by this notion, especially
if they're dating others also. If they throw a
fit, you're dating the wrong women anyway, right?
The most important thing to any high quality
woman is that you're spending time with her,
especially if you're not in an exclusive relationship.
Just buy cards and leave it at that. Better yet,
be creative. I know one guy who even bought
one of those packs of valentines the elementary
school kids use and handed them out. Classic.
And if you suspect that isn't enough?
Well, the good news this year is that February
14th falls on a Sunday.
That means you can take women out Friday,
Saturday, AND Sunday night if you'd like, and
all of them we'll feel good about the weekend
scheduling.
And I didn't even mention Saturday and Sunday
afternoon.
But what about the other problem?
You know, the "dateless" one.
Well, have I got a solution for you. (What, did
you think I was going to leave you hanging?
Not a chance.)
The first order of business is to get outside of
your own head, stop being self-conscious about
it and realize that at least 99.9% of the rest of
the human population is up in arms over
Valentine's Day also.
Guys, women everywhere are absolutely
bristling with nervous energy over whether
they'll have a date on Valentine's Day or not.
There is probably no other time of year that
women are more approachable than right now,
at about ten days out from V-day.
Nowhere is this MORE evident than ONLINE.
When I was at the peak of my online dating
action, I was floored by how women would
become MUCH more direct around Valentine's
Day.
I'd get more messages from women than
usual.
Women I knew who had dropped off the
map would suddenly write or call out of
nowhere.
And women I wrote to would not only respond
even more often than usual, they wanted to cut
to the chase more quickly also.
It wasn't at all uncommon for women to want
to bypass e-mail and lengthy phone
conversations completely.
They just wanted to maximize their chances at
meeting a guy and hopefully avoid sitting home
alone on Valentine's Day.
And mind you, these women were often the
particularly attractive ones. The self-imposed
pressure, ironically enough, seems to be
even higher the more desirable they are.
I'll tell you what. If that isn't a massively
valuable enough secret for you, here's
another: If you think the week BEFORE
V-day is a bonanza, you haven't seen anything
yet.
The week AFTER Valentine's Day is arguably
the most primo opportunity you are going to get
all year long to meet the most stunning women
out there.
Why?
Well, if they didn't get a date for Valentine's
Day, the weight is even heavier. They feel left
out..they missed out.
What's more, there's no longer any social
pressure to spend money or go through the
trappings of the holiday.
Seriously, guys. The next two weeks of
your life are absolutely mission critical if
you have "online dating" anywhere on your
radar screen.
It's time for YOU to step up and be that very
guy women might miss out on if they don't
meet you between now and the 14th.
I couldn't be more serious about what I'm
saying. This is no joke.
By now you know that my program Online
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Over 90% of all guys FAIL at online dating
and apps, even with more unbelievable
women online nowadays than ever before.
Why do they fail?
Simple. We as men don't ever seem to
ask for directions.
Meanwhile, there are very specific steps
you can take to rise above the average
frustrated guy online.
So few guys ever actually get around to
asking direction that when those few guys
DO learn the ropes, they end up meeting
and going out with their top choices among
women on whatever dating site they are on.
We're not talking about a "numbers game".
This is called total online dating
domination.
Right now I am very aware that the clock
is ticking away on this opportunity even as
we speak.
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That's all for now.
Be Good (or should I say "Love"),
Scot McKay
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