[X&Y] The Blacklist
Published: Tue, 03/09/21
IN THIS EDITION: For every "whitelist" there should also be
its darker counterpart, the "blacklist".
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SO HOW HAS IT BEEN GOING LATELY?
Are things opening up a bit where you are?
Have you been meeting women?
If so, did you wake up the next morning excited about the numbers
you got and the choices you have?
Or are you frustrated and bummed out?
Did you actually meet an amazing woman, develop amazing
"chemistry" with her immediately and end up making out with
her for hours?
Or did you come home earlier than you expected to and watch
SportsCenter instead?
It's time to draw a line in the sand. If you're not getting the
results you want with women you really believe you deserve,
then it's time to do something about it.
Life's too short and the women you want the most are WAY too
willing and eager to spend their time and sexual energy on some
other guy if you don't ever step up.
It's time they were with YOU instead.
And that means it's time to get in touch with me about 1-on-1
coaching:
Tell me your story. Tell me where you are today and where you'd
like to be.
If you'd rather, talk to me for free for 25-minutes:
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/takeaction
I'm here for you, and I've been one of the most well-known dating
coaches on Earth for over fifteen years now for good reason: I get
real-world results for each and every guy who puts me to work
for him.Life's most bitter regrets come when we DON'T do what we know we
should do.
As you'll see below, settling for the WRONG woman you
knew was bad for you from the start is one of the worst such
regrets you can imagine.
Shouldn't you be the one getting a pocket full of numbers and
creating "movie moments" with delighted cuties everywhere?
After all, that leads to OPTIONS, which in turn leads to better
decisions.
Drop me a note and let's turn this ship around for you:
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THE BLACKLIST
Over the weekend, I equipped you with one of the most valuable
tools imaginable for selecting high quality women.
That's a "whitelist" of ten traits that you deem most important
in the woman of your dreams.
I trust you've already built yourself a bulletproof one since
then, right?
Well, here is perhaps an even MORE crucial exercise for you.
You've got to make a "blacklist" as well. Don't worry, it's not
like Raymond Reddington's roster of international thugs.
Rather, your version will list the absolute dealbreakers
that unequivocally disqualify ANY woman you know from
being in your life.
that unequivocally disqualify ANY woman you know from
being in your life.
Now, unlike the whitelist, this list has no limit with regard
to the number of entries that can be on it. It also doesn't
require any scaling from 1-10.
Rather, it's completely binary. That is, each respective
criterion can be checked "yes" or "no" for each woman you
know.
Again...I don't care what's actually on the list. That's up to you.
But whatever you write down on the blacklist, promise yourself
RIGHT NOW that if any woman you're seeing ever exhibits ANY
of it, it's breakup time.
No ifs, ands or buts. No passing "go" or collecting $200.
If you build the blacklist and live by it as closely as you do the
whitelist, your chances of having to deal with excessive,
mind-numbing and potentially life-altering relationship drama will
go WAY, WAY down.
In fact, guys who overlook this important step are LIKELY to end
up with the wrong woman...and also LIKELY to end up in divorce
court.
If you think I'm kidding, simply look at the public statistics.
So like the whitelist, it's important to create the blacklist BEFORE
you start dating.
That is, BEFORE you start dating someone who is so hot she
causes you to EXCUSE a clear "dealbreaker"...if only you
had written it down BEFORE meeting her.
The blacklist clears your head about what you DON'T want, much
as the whitelist gives you clarity about what you DO want.
Think of both lists as two halves of a pact you make with yourself
at the very beginning of your journey to becoming successful with
women.
When it's "n writing, perhaps even endorsed with your own
signature, you'll always have an immediate and undeniable
touchstone to YOUR REALITY as perceived long before being
"clouded by beauty vision".
Can you see the importance of building a whitelist AND a blacklist
...and sticking to them no matter what?
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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