[X&Y] Do This One Thing And Be More Attractive Immediately
Published: Thu, 05/13/21
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IN THIS EDITION: One of the best ways to immediately improve your
attractiveness to women is to get out of the habit of being a "complainer".Here's why...
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IT'S TIME WOMEN TREATED YOU BETTER
You know, I get my fair share of e-mails from guys who give me a
hard time for, well, having the audacity to actually like women.
Some think I must be "young and naïve" for thinking women are
wonderful.
Others warn me "all women are blackhearted" and my own wife will
eventually prove to be that way like the rest of 'em.
Well, here's the thing. Never mind the simple fact that I have
nothing to gain by being converted to their opinion.
If you consider 54 young, then I'm guilty as charged.
But I'm not as naïve as some apparently need me to be in order to
come to grips with the preposterous opinions I express.
The plain truth is that I've lived through a LONG period of my life
where it felt like I was wearing "woman repellent". At best, they
were disinterested in me.
Then, I went through about as rough a marriage as you could ever
dread.
But unlike so many guys whose opinion of women in general slides
DOWNWARD as they get more and more jaded by bad experiences with
poisonous women, my view of women has actually RISEN dramatically
over time.
I survived my divorce and actively took control of my fortunes with
women going forward.
I discovered amazing truths about how women think and what they're
attracted to, and I began to lead differently when around them.
My mindset changed, as did my expectations.
Immediately (and in my mind at the time, miraculously) I stopped
attracting crazy women and started enjoying the company of those
who made life more pleasurable rather than more painful.
In recent years I've lived a life where women all seem to adore me
and will do practically ANYTHING for me...no matter where in the
world I travel, no less.
And yes, my relationship with Emily is exactly what it seems to be.
The transformation has been so profound that even my friends and
relatives routinely ask about it and demand an explanation.
So what happened there? I'm basically the same guy, so how did
everything change for the better?
And how did I go from getting hardly any female attention in the
"bad old days" to far more than I can possibly handle?
Here it is: It's all about discovering how to CHARM women.
It sounds tricky and complicated, but it's actually rather EASY.
If I can do it, so can you.
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BE MORE ATTRACTIVE IMMEDIATELY
The title of this newsletter isn't simply some "rah rah" statement meant
to serve as a one-liner pep talk.
As promised yesterday, here's a real, practical solution to getting
on the road to success with women immediately.
The point-blank truth is that if you're in the habit of finding
fault in most everything and then ranting about it, then women
aren't going to find you interesting at all.
While it's true that negativity is a general turn-off for just
about everyone, that's not even the whole story.
In a woman's eyes, the problem with men who are "complainers" is
that they appear helpless.
They occur as lacking personal power.
That's because the "complainer" gets frustrated and bent out of
shape over something that he perceives he either can't change or
doesn't even want to deal with at all.
And if he can't handle life's trivial challenges, then he's
obviously in no condition to be a protector and a provider.Yep...it all comes down to that once again.
So this is very, very real. The very moment you make the decision
not to complain about things, you improve your chances with women.
Set a mental trigger in your mind so that you immediately catch
yourself whenever tempted to launch into a negative tirade on some
trivial thing.
Whenever the "alarm" goes off whack yourself upside the head. Make
it stop.
Now, as usual there IS a twist to this whole conversation, however.
Men who constantly paint on a "happy face" no matter what--even when
something "negative" is going on--are every bit as unattractive to
women as "complainers" are.
That's because when the chips are down and something "bad" really
is going on, if you pass it off as a non-event and keep smiling
women will be flat-out disgusted.
Again, this is because you'll be perceived as lacking power. You'll be
like the ostrich who buries it's head in the sand believing that the
problem has "disappeared".
So as you can see, the concept of "negative" people being a bummer
aside, the major issue here really lies in coming off as impotent
rather than willing and able to lead.
A "big four" man differentiates himself from both "complainers" and
"ostriches" by acknowledging when a problem exists, calmly
accepting the reality of the situation and most importantly suggesting
a solution and implementing it.
There you go: The tipping point between unattractiveness and
making women hot for you in this case comes at the moment you
suggest a proactive plan and seek to execute upon it.
Unattractive men complain. The guy who is "all talk and no
action" makes women roll their eyes.Meanwhile, attractive men recognize problems and solve them.
They're the heroes to high quality women everywhere.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. You know, every bit of what I discussed here applies not only
outwardly but inwardly as well.
We live in the "How are you? I'm fine" culture where everyone is
expected to present themselves as "perfect" to the outside world.
But when we fail to address what would build our own character
and/or expertise--either due to a cavalier attitude toward it OR
frustration--we're stuck with our shortcomings.
By far the most "fatal flaw" we can have is to be either
unteachable or apathetic regarding our faults, because THEN we're
stuck with all of our faults forever. That's a sobering thought,
for sure.
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