[X&Y] Sitting This One Out
Published: Fri, 06/18/21
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SITTING THIS ONE OUT
Despite all the technological advances we have nowadays, we all still
have too much going on.
That means certain areas of life are neglected because we're
overwhelmed with other stuff.
All too often, what we perceive as "urgent" takes precedence.
Meanwhile, whatever can wait indeed waits...even as we give lip service
to its alleged importance in our lives.
It amazes me how many men surrender to urgency on a daily basis,
all at the expense of what's really meaningful to them.
Even perhaps what's MOST meaningful to them.
Yes...I've lost count of how many men I talk to who declare, "Once such-
and-such is taken care of, I can focus on success with women...and
getting a girlfriend."
"I'm moving in a few months, so after that."
"I just relocated, so I need a few MORE months."
"I need to lose weight."
"After I buy a new car."
"I've got to deal with my ex."
"My business is just now taking off."
Sure, all of those situations demand attention. And they carry some
importance.
But that's the way it ALWAYS has been, and left unchecked it's the
way it always WILL BE.
I can tell you with 100% sincerity, there is ALWAYS going to be
something that feels more urgent than finding the LOVE of your life.
Yet, ask almost anyone who has found it, and they'll cite it as the
greatest joy life has to offer.
Consider this message I received just this morning in my inbox from
a Mountain Top Summit group member:
"You really nailed it on the head (and it’s something that many don’t
seem to understand much to my frustration) when you said in one of
the audios that 'you can have everything in the world, but if you do not
have love then you have nothing; yet you can have nothing but love
and you have everything.' So true though I would have not known it
until a few years ago now."
If you are not giving yourself every advantage when it comes to
getting this all-important part of your life handled, it's time to ask
yourself the REAL reason why you continue to sit this one out.
In high school, maybe you tacitly assumed only the social lottery
winners could get girls. You and your friends commiserated
together by sneering at the "lucky" ones.
But it HURT. I've been there, so I know first-hand.
Then, in college you needed to "focus on your studies".
After college, your focus turned to your career.
Meanwhile, the few guys who have given meeting women and
relating to them ANY priority at all are STILL the ones enjoying
their company...even now.
And make no mistake about it: That's probably the ONLY
real difference between them and you.
Let's face it. All the while, "sitting this one out" has felt a lot like
"bench warming", hasn't it?
Some other guy gets to start the game, play the field, make the
moves, score the goals, revel in the victories...and get the glory.
That glory, of course, comes in the form of all the women YOU
wanted...then a great girlfriend who other guys wish they had...
and ultimately the kind of long-term relationship that everyone
is jealous of.
Listen, after three and a half decades of mostly "bench warming",
I finally got SICK and TIRED of not getting to play.
Hell, sometimes I felt even more like a spectator.
And I can tell you, stepping up to the plate and swinging for the
fence has been MORE than worth it.
It has been EVERYTHING.
Indeed, no douchey billionaire with his collection of Lamborghinis
has it better than I do. I have the woman of my dreams--who
adores me. We live a life of true happiness and endless
adventures.
But to get to this point, I had to make women and relationships a
genuine PRIORITY:
No More Sitting On The Sidelines
In the end, time claims everything. "Father Time is undefeated",
as they say.
That means it's time to work with me 1-on-1 to FINALLY get in
the game and score big time...once and for all.
No more cheering someone else on. No more pretending that
something else is more important than having the greatest
woman you've ever met by your side:
Let's Talk About A Plan Of Action
What will happen when YOU finally decide you're ready to push
your chips to the center of the table...and you're ready to meet
a great woman?
Will you have the wherewithal necessary?
Can you attract the right women and weed out the wrong ones?
Will you charm and captivate the one you want?
Will you CONNECT with her in a way that sets the stage for a
strong relationship right from the start?
If you're moving to a new city in six months, are you going to wait
until you get there to START preparing?
Does your business have to be Fortune 500 before you ever
find the time for this?
Today is the day. 2021 is nearly HALF OVER already. No more
"bench warming". It's GO time:
Swing For The Fence
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