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WHAT'S INSIDE:   You know you can't be boring on a date with a
woman...so what's HER excuse?

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WHO ARE THE MEN WHO TAKE ACTION?


What kind of man typically hires me as his coach?

Well, there are lots of young guys who want to know the
secrets older men use to get younger women...long before
they themselves get older. (These guys usually become
unstoppable.)

Then there are guys who have a lot going for them, but for
some reason a hidden mystery seems to be ruining their
chances with women.  I specialize in solving those unique
puzzles that all the books and videos will never, ever address.

Also, men who believe in primal masculine/feminine attraction,
but are frustrated by conflicting media messages about
that, along with the apparent changes in society itself.

I work with plenty of men who are coming off a brutal breakup
or divorce, and refuse to play the victim.  They emerge
victorious and make sure history doesn't repeat itself.

Along the same lines, I get calls from many men who
are in a "dry spell" they just can't explain...and together
we turn that ship around.

And of course, there are those guys who are sure they
have so much to offer the kind of woman they want, if only
they could actually approach her, meet her and get her
on a first date.

Note there aren't so many men who need the bare-bones
basics. 

If X & Y Communications were a driving school, it
would be Bob Bondurant racing school, not the
place you send your 16-year-old with a learner's
permit to.

It's like I've always said, were I to host a dinner party for
everyone I've ever coached (and their beautiful wives
and girlfriends, of course), everyone attending would
be flat-out amazed by the company they were in.

Of course, I'd never actually throw such an event
because your confidentiality is always 100% assured.

Now it's your turn.  Let's do this.  It all starts with a free
1-on-1 call to explore the options:



https://mountaintoppodcast.com/coach



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WHY INTERESTING WOMEN ARE BORING ON DATES


How many times has it been drilled into your head that you're going
to have to bring some "energy" along when you meet a woman for the
first time?

And how many times have you been told that women LOVE interesting
men who provide them with some excitement?

I'm sure you've heard each of those a thousand or more times...or
so it it would seem.

And YET, it's uncanny how often we find ourselves in front of an
utterly stunning woman and SHE'S the one who's about as BORING as
standing in line at the DMV.

What's up with that?  What's HER excuse?

I mean, many times when that happens you instinctively sense that
she can't possibly be THAT much of a "bump on a log" all the time.

Perhaps not.

I don't want to say it's a "test" per se like is talked about so often in
men's dating advice, but I can see how that would be the first thing
that comes to mind.

And yes, she might be "charm throttling" you, as I've talked about
before.  That is, she's holding back on the shock and awe that would
make you fall for her...at least until she's more sure about you.

BUT...it's more likely that what's going on here is that she's expecting
you to...wait for it...LEAD.

She may even be thinking in her ever-so-feminine thoughts that it's
YOUR job to spark the excitement.  As such, it just wouldn't be
"ladylike" to hijack that leadership from you.

Moreover, she's fully expecting to LIKE you rather than reject you,
so she's leaving the door WIDE open for you to seize the
opportunity to IGNITE her femininity.

Remember:  Women really DO love a man who "brings the energy".

If and when you man up and do exactly that, it will excite her--even
at the sexual level.

In other words, that's what turns her on.  And she knows it.

Add it all up and she's actually being more PATIENT than BORING
...at least in a shocking number of instances.

It's really tragic, then, to respond to her "boring"
stereotypically polite questions, etc. with MORE boredom...
"mirroring" her behavior as if on some sort of ultra-tedious job
interview.

If you fall into that trap, you guessed it...she'll realize you're
BORING.  Prepare to visit the "Just Be Friends Zone".

A caveat here.  Some women really are flat-out boring to begin
with...and that's not YOUR problem.

And I'm also going to leave room for the possibility that she's
simply overcome with nerves.

But if you ever find yourself out with someone who you thought
would be fun to hang out with, but who instead starts boring
you to tears, I've just explained what's going on.

Whether she's nervous or deferring to your leadership, the irony
is that she's boring because she's attracted...go figure.

She's giving you the gift of taking the masculine role.

So take the initiative, as a great man should. 

If and when a perfectly engaging and vivacious woman leaves the
door open for YOU to lead in setting the right tone of excitement
and energy for your date together, walk through it.

You'll see her "wake up" to the moment right then and there. 

As counter-intuitive as this all sounds, I dare you to give it a
try.  Most men never figure out what I've just shared with you.

 
Be Good,

Scot McKay




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