[X&Y] The Just Be Friends Talk In Reverse
Published: Thu, 08/30/18
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IN THIS EDITION: Have you ever considered the ramifications of the
"Just Be Friends" talk in reverse? Through the magic of electroniccommunication, you're about to.
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THE "JUST BE FRIENDS" TALK IN REVERSE
Man, do we as guys ever detest hearing the dreaded "Just Be
Friends" talk.
As I've told you before, that's what we tend to hear over and over
again from women WE like, but whom we've failed to ignite with
natural masculinity.
Yeah, we're "nice guys" and "really sweet" and such, but she just
doesn't "feel it" for us or she doesn't "like us in that way".
Well, if you've fallen into a pattern of hearing that, then you
likely already know that my program The Master Plan is the
definitive cure.
And as I alluded to yesterday, it's not the cure that "makes sense"
to guys who believe women think like guys, it's what straight-up
WORKS.
But check this out.
Have you ever noticed that you (yes YOU) are probably giving women
whom YOU feel very little, if any attraction for a form of the "JBF
talk" yourself?
Come on now, admit it.
There's been a time or two when a woman you felt NOTHING for
somehow latched onto you and decided you were her "future honey".
Oh, geez Louise. Awkward, isn't it?
So what did you do?
You didn't want to blow her out of the tub and scar her for life,
so you were "nice" about it, weren't you?
But you also told her (even if "sort of") that you thought she was
cool and all, but you didn't think it was a good idea to "go out"
because of [insert excuse here].
Yeah, man. Face it...you "JBFed" her.
For the purposes of this newsletter, let's call that the "JBF-R".
You performed that dirty deed that's usually associated with women,
but this time the roles were switched.
Just like the "TGR-R" (The Golden Rule, Reversed) that I talk about
once in a while, "JBF-R" may sound like a Yamaha sportbike, but
it's actually a life-altering premise that's crucial to know about.
So what's my point here?
You can learn a metric ton about how YOU react to being "JBFed" by
considering how girls you've "JBFed" have reacted to you.
No kidding. It's not a gender-specific dynamic
For starters, women who you give the "JBF-R" talk to do NOT exactly
care to be "freinded". It irks and frustrates them every bit as
much as it does when a woman "JBFs" you.
What's more, if you've been through enough of a "dry spell" lately
that you led her on for a week or two BEFORE ultimately deciding
that you didn't like her as more than a friend (or a "booty call",
even), don't be surprised if she wants nothing to do with you.
That's nothing more than her self-respect kicking in--and rightly
so, if you ask me.
She didn't want to be "just friends". She wanted to be your
GIRLfriend.
Assuming that you're tracking with me this far, I ask you this.
Have you ever felt the "pain of rejection" after a woman you've
just "JBF-R"ed tells you to "stick it" (or similar)?
I hear from guys all the time who are struggling with those
feelings. They usually say something, like, "Man, dude...I didn't
even really find this girl all that great and even SHE 'rejected'
me after I told her I wasn't so sure I was interested in her as a
girlfriend."
Nonsense. Don't you dare feel "rejected".
What's going on there isn't rejection of you by her, if anything
SHE'S feeling rejected. She's hitting you with a solid "no thanks"
to your "JBF" offer like a friggin' pie in the face. That's what
hurt feelings compel women to do.
So then, if your brain wanders in the direction of wondering how
you'll ever get a woman you really DO like when you "get rejected"
even by women you DON'T really like, you're just letting your mind
play tricks on you.
That's 100% a logical fallacy in context.
You didn't like her all that much, she knows it, and she won't
allow herself to be even more disappointed. Good for her, actually.
And when you, as the "chooser" you've already proven you are,
actually meets a woman worthy of you admiration and attraction,
she'll appreciate that--enough to be thrilled.
That's the "law of the jungle", gentlemen. Never, ever measure
your ability to succeed with high quality women by how women who
ARE NOT to your standards react to your disinterest.
Read that last line again and let it sink in. You may wonder why I
need to even write a newsletter devoted to that premise, but years
of experience have repeatedly demonstrated how necessary it is to
drop a reminder now and then.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. In case you've not figured it out already, the term "JBF-R"
is really meant to draw attention to the fact that we as guys
really, truly do "JBF" women too.
The down-to-earth truth is that "JBF"ing isn't gender-specific.
Whether it's coming from a woman to a man or vice-versa, rest
assured it's still the same garden-variety "JBF" talk.
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