[X&Y] 3 Ways To Know For Sure If She's The Woman For You

Published: Mon, 12/03/18



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IN THIS EDITION:  How do you know if you've really got the RIGHT
woman in your life, once and for all?  Here are real, objective
answers.  

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SHE SAYS, "BABY, CAN I GET YOU A BEER?"


Imagine the scene…

You get home from work after another long, stressful day at the
office.

Deadlines.  Angry bosses.  The works.

But unlike some poor suckers out there, you don’t dread coming
home to your wife even more than going to work.

Instead, you CAN’T WAIT to get home.
 
That’s because you’ve already received about five “private
selfies”.

Sure enough, she answers the door in a robe…red lingerie
underneath.

Her eyes shine as she smiles and hands you your favorite
beer, which she has already poured for you.

“Hey baby…I missed you ALL day”, she says.

“Why don’t you sit down in your easy chair and I’ll bring you
a hot meal?”

“Go ahead and watch your game. Decompress. I won’t talk
your ear off about all the drama with my girlfriends…especially
right after you walk in the door.  I know you’ve had a long day.”

And then the clincher…

“When you’re done with your game”, she says, “I’ll give you
the absolute best ‘oral pleasures’ ever”, punctuated with a
naughty giggle.

By now you might think I’ve lost my mind, even THINKING a
woman would ever treat her man like that.

But it’s MORE LIKELY you’re wondering where you can FIND
this “mythical” woman I’m talking about for yourself.

Oh…she’s very real.

You simply have to know how to build the right relationship
with such an amazing girlfriend, that's all.

Truth be told, if you have a girlfriend already, you might very
well ALREADY HAVE that woman in your life...

...you just have to know the closely-guarded secrets to
BRINGING IT OUT in her.

Well, like so many of the good things in life, the answers
have been hiding in plain sight:



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Don't be the last guy reading this newsletter who
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Together.

The longer you wait to discover these secrets, the longer
SHE has to wait.  That's a fact.



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READER QUESTIONS AND COMMENTS


Hey Scot,    

I have a question for you.  

I am in a great relationship and I care for this woman very much.
In fact, I love her and she is definitely in love with me.  

But how do I know that she is the one?  If I end this relationship
with her, it will break her heart and that absolutely kills me.  

Do I give myself more time or am I just ignoring the inevitable?  

We have been dating for about 2 months and communicating for 4
months.        


Thanks for the help,    

Andre (Farwell, MN)



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Hello Andre, and thanks for writing.

First of all, by talking about ending the relationship, I hope you
are not falling into the trap of believing that if you actually
find a great woman you can theoretically spend a lifetime with, and
she feels the same way about you, that you need to BREAK UP
with her.  

Some guys have been taught that it's somehow "giving your power
away" or something to find the ultimate woman and be happy with
her.

We covered that in a previous newsletter, and I don't understand
that way of thinking.  At all.

In reality, it's all about having complete, 100% control over your
wildly successful dating life.  If you are making your own decisions
from a position of strength rather than capitulation, then you are
NEVER giving your power away.  

So if you have chosen the greatest woman from many options,
and a long-term stable life with her is what you truly want, then
so be it.  

Having gotten that off my chest, and assuming all is in order in
your life, I can actually give you objective answers to what you
are asking about.  

Here are three major points to consider:  



1)  TWO MONTHS ISN'T NEARLY LONG ENOUGH


You'll need more time than that to know for sure if this has
long-term potential.  I don't care if you two are joined at the
hip these days.  

Emily and I were together constantly almost from minute one
and we waited nine months to get married.  I waited seven to
propose.  

You've simply got to let the 'warm fuzzies' calibrate themselves
over some measure of time.  There's no way to gain any
visibility into what the future holds otherwise.



2)  MAKE A SPREADSHEET
 

List the ten most important factors you want in a woman.  I don't
care what they are, it's your decision alone.  

Rank her for each respective factor from 1-10.  The closer she is
to a "100", the better she is for you.

Bear in mind that since you are doing this exercise after the fact,
your perceptions will be a bit biased.  Ideally, this list is best
formulated before meeting the highest quality women you are
eventually capable of attracting.

By the way, if this sounds rather objective or even "mechanical",
that's by design.  

If you are a natural "right brainer", as I am, you have a tendency
to get wrapped up in the euphoria of a particularly promising
relationship and make seat of the pants decisions.  This helps
you ground the circuit, so to speak.  

Now, if on the other hand your mind is more analytical to begin
with, you might suppose you'd be subjecting yourself to "analysis
paralysis" with an exercise like this.  

Ironically enough, however, if you stick to the design I'm
proposing here you may actually be able to FOCUS your analysis
rather than letting it spiral into an unchecked vortex of questions
without answers.

But perhaps the most effective way to definitively sort things out
is what follows...

 

3)  PLAN A ROAD TRIP OF AT LEAST FOUR DAYS


This is golden.  Schedule the time off work and preferably fly
somewhere and rent a car.  

Build an itinerary for the trip that involves MASSIVE windshield
time...just you and her together in the car.  

For hours...  And hours...

Make sure there are also some truly cool places to see along the
way.  You are testing to see if you get on each other's nerves
under those circumstances.  You are also testing to see if you can
truly enjoy "big moments" together fully and with synergy.  

I took Emily to Arizona when we had known each other for two
months, putting 1400 miles on the clock and seeing Sedona, The
Grand Canyon and Monument Valley.  It went well.  

But just for good measure, I planned yet another trip four months
later.  We hit California and went from LA through the wine country
up to the Bay Area and back to LA.  That trip went equally well.  

The following month I proposed.  

I truly believe this strategy is a powerful one, very much
portending what live together would be like through periods of
boredom, frustration, excitement, bliss and everything in between.
 


I'm assuming you had the opportunity to date numerous women
before meeting this one to gain full understanding of what you truly
appreciate in a woman rather leaving it to pure speculation.

Without that visibility, you're really only guessing no matter what,
while hoping for the best.    

Do some guys meet the greatest woman of all time early in the
process?  

Sure, but as I said, it's never as proven a scenario as when a guy
has dated plenty of women and raised the proverbial bar as high as
it will go before selecting the right one from many amazing options
(which, incidentally, transforms that 100-point spreadsheet into an
indispensable tool).

 

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Even if you don't have the woman of your dreams on your radar screen
just yet...or maybe even are looking forward to dating lots of women
before that happens, this kind of 20/20 foresight we've covered today
will keep you from getting derailed.   

And by "derailed", I mean either by settling OR by blowing it with
a great woman.

If you are all about getting the greatest woman you've ever met
into your life, you not only have to know how to find her, you have
to know how to make certain you're well-equipped to build a
healthy, happy relationship with her that lasts.

Making solid decisions regarding the women in your life is SERIOUS
BUSINESS.  Sometimes you really only get one shot at making the
right call when everything is at stake.

That's why there's Get Together, Stay Together.


Be Good,

Scot McKay


P.S.  Have you joined the rapidly-expanding community on
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