[X&Y] She Tells You How Many Other Guys Want Her
Published: Sat, 02/09/19
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IN THIS EDITION: Yeah, yeah...every guy in town wants her, and
she's making sure YOU know it. What's the point?
she's making sure YOU know it. What's the point?
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SHE TELLS YOU HOW MANY OTHER GUYS WANT HER
Most guys completely dismiss their chances with certain women. It's
as if they're looking for an excuse to bail out.
Indeed, for years I've been talking about how the "Too Good To Be
True Factor" influences us to talk ourselves out of success with women
before even giving them a chance to form their own opinion on the
matter.
Because success is so hard to imagine as reality, we automatically
assume it CAN'T happen. Therefore, we sabotage ourselves just to
make sure we're right about that.
Pretty sick, isn't it?
But sometimes we as guys will even go so far as to interpret
POSITIVE signs as NEGATIVES.
These cases are the most tragic ones because the woman herself is
left wondering what the heck just happened.
Basically, both people lose out on getting to know each other...even
though they actually WANTED that to happen. He makes a wholly
incorrect assumption, and she ends up feeling "rejected".
Man, what a tangled web we weave, huh?
Well, here's a primo example of an indicator of solid interest that most
guys misinterpret as a put-off.
That's when a woman starts telling you how many guys she has
interested in her....especially if she makes it a point to do so.
Just to clear the air up front, I'll be the first to throw on the table that
it's a mistake for a woman to do that. I mean, it's a bad idea for
anyone--woman OR man--to say or do anything that's likely to be
misconstrued socially.
But rest assured nonetheless, women really have no idea you're
taking such statements as code for, "Hey, get lost...I have enough
guys trying to hit on me already. They'll never get anywhere, and
you won't either."
Unless she's as overtly blunt and negative about the matter as in
the example above, you should open your eyes to a potentially
different interpretation of what she's saying...a radically different
one, yet most likely the intended one.
You see, it's overwhelmingly probable that she's bringing the
matter to your attention in an attempt to increase her value in
your eyes.
That's because she LIKES YOU and hopes you'll LIKE HER.
Let me illustrate this for you.
If you're from the US or the UK and have ever rented a car
elsewhere (e.g. Europe, the Pacific Rim or the Middle East) you'll
quickly notice something as you try to find familiar music on the
radio dial.
People in non-English speaking countries really do love American
and British pop music.
BUT...they're WAY behind the timeline. And when they decide
they like a particular song they REALLY, REALLY like it.
Welp, several years ago when we did a road trip around southern
Europe the French and the Spaniards had just discovered "Call Me
Maybe" by Carli Rae Jepson.
Good God Man. We couldn't avoid that shiznit for 2000 miles worth
of roadtripping. International borders couldn't even ease the pain.
Between that, some Justin Bieber song and "Scream & Shout"
you'd be led to believe these stations had a three song rotation...
at least until they'd break stride with three songs by Bruno Mars in
a row, invariably punctuated by "Someone Like You" by Adele.
OK, so making lemonade out of lemons, I did make one interesting
observation. Check out this lyric from what's an otherwise
completely worthless, overproduced pop monstrosity with a
distinctly random, incoherent flow to it:
"And all the other boys try to chase me, but here's my number
...so call me, maybe?"
...so call me, maybe?"
Aha...see that? The girl clearly likes the guy...a LOT. And before
giving him her number, she drops EXACTLY the kind of line I'm
talking about here.
Rhetorically speaking, it goes without saying that she's NOT hoping
the guy "gets lost".
So like other women who would have us know how popular they are
with other dudes, she's attempting to tap into the power of perceived
social proof to gain approval from him also.
You know, just in case he isn't yet in the fold with those who quickly
adore her.
Can you see how that's working there?
After all, as all good salespeople know, people buy on the approval
of others.
Following logically, you can now see that it's all nothing more than
good old-fashioned approval seeking.
Yes...it's of the same ill-advised type that tends to make people look
needy or even desperate when overplayed.
There you have another reason why women probably shouldn't play
that particular card.
But alas, they do. And they sure LOVE to, don't they?
Well, from now on you'll know what she's REALLY trying to tell you
when that happens.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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