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[X&Y] Getting Women's Hints And Being "Friends First" [Reader Question]

Published: Sun, 09/14/25

Updated: Sun, 09/14/25

===== WHAT'S INSIDE: What's it going to take to get you to figure out she LIKES you? That's what SHE'S asking, as it turns out... ===== FALL IS IN…

[X&Y] What Is "Femininity", Anyway?

Published: Sat, 09/13/25

Updated: Sat, 09/13/25

===== WHAT'S INSIDE: So what makes a woman "feminine" anyway? Why do they turn us on so much? You may have just automatically assumed it doesn't…

[X&Y] Being In Control Vs. Being A Controlling Jerk

Published: Fri, 09/12/25

Updated: Fri, 09/12/25

===== WHAT'S INSIDE: You've got to "wear the pants", but you don't want to be a controlling jerk. Here's how to get this right... ===== WHAT IF YOU…

[X&Y] How To Avoid Boring Her To Death (Reader Question)

Published: Thu, 09/11/25

Updated: Thu, 09/11/25

===== IN THIS EDITION: You have a new girlfriend, and plan on keeping her around. How do you make sure the two of you don't run out of e citing things…

[X&Y] Do This One Thing And Be More Attractive Immediately

Published: Wed, 09/10/25

Updated: Wed, 09/10/25

===== IN THIS EDITION: One of the best ways to immediately improve your attractiveness to women is to get out of the habit of being a "complainer".

[X&Y] Part Two: 6 Harsh Wake-Up Calls

Published: Tue, 09/09/25

Updated: Tue, 09/09/25

===== WHAT'S INSIDE: Here are three more dating disasters that can only serve to make your life miserable if you allow them to run their evil course.

[X&Y] 6 Harsh Wake-Up Calls

Published: Mon, 09/08/25

Updated: Mon, 09/08/25

===== WHAT'S INSIDE: If you've EVER allowed yourself to endure ANY of the following heinous dating disasters (and even e cuse them as "normal"), it's…

[X&Y] Are You In An Exclusive Relationship Without Even Dating Her?

Published: Sun, 09/07/25

Updated: Sun, 09/07/25

===== WHAT'S INSIDE: You're committed to her, but not actually dating her. ...What? ===== THE BIG 4 MAN CHALLENGE RETURNS It didn't get it's name…

[X&Y] "Dinner And Drinks...Then Sex?" [Question From A Woman]

Published: Sat, 09/06/25

Updated: Sat, 09/06/25

===== WHAT'S INSIDE: Audrey in Florida wonders aloud about the whole pressure-packed "dinner date" scenario and why it's what EVERY guy seems to plan.

[X&Y] What Makes Sex Great? (Letter From A Woman)

Published: Fri, 09/05/25

Updated: Fri, 09/05/25

===== IN THIS EDITION: Is "tender lovemaking" the only se that's any good to women? ===== GET TO THE GOOD PART... Last time I told you about what is…

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