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[X&Y] How Often Should You Text Her? (Where's The Balance?)

Published: Sun, 06/08/25

Updated: Wed, 06/11/25

===== IN THIS EDITION: We hear a lot about the dangers of calling women too much. But how can you make sure not to let the pendulum swing too far the…

[X&Y] 6 Ways Men Make The "Mr. Nice Guy" Problem Even Worse

Published: Sat, 06/07/25

Updated: Wed, 06/11/25

===== IN THIS EDITION: With all the talk about being "Mr. Nice Guy", do some of us let the pendulum swing TOO FAR to the other side? Here's how to…

[X&Y] Discover The Mountain Top Podcast

Published: Sat, 06/07/25

Updated: Wed, 06/11/25

===== DISCOVER THE MOUNTAIN TOP PODCAST It's always amazing to me how many guys I talk to have never checked out the podcast. Some guys don't even…

[X&Y] On The Porch Waiting With A Shotgun

Published: Fri, 06/06/25

Updated: Wed, 06/11/25

===== WHAT'S INSIDE: Want to succeed with women? Here's a hint...you'll need to be amazing to ALL the women in your life, not just the ones you're se…

[X&Y] Is This A "Mercy Date", Or What?

Published: Thu, 06/05/25

Updated: Wed, 06/11/25

===== IN THIS EDITION: Will you be her lover, or "just a friend". The clock is ticking... ===== WE TOOK 13 YEARS TO FIGURE THIS OUT...SO YOU WON'T…

[X&Y] What Every Man Craves Above All...

Published: Wed, 06/04/25

Updated: Wed, 06/11/25

===== WHAT EVERY MAN CRAVES ABOVE ALL Have you ever watched Braveheart before? Of course you have. And the reason it so completely rocks is because…

[X&Y] Are You A Jerk Just Because She SAYS You Are?

Published: Tue, 06/03/25

Updated: Tue, 06/03/25

===== IN THIS EDITION: She calls you a "jerk". Is she right? ===== SAME OLD STORY, DIFFERENT DAY? Several years ago, all of our lives got disrupted.

[X&Y] What To Do If You're Just "Painting By Numbers"

Published: Mon, 06/02/25

Updated: Tue, 06/03/25

===== IN THIS EDITION: Is the "paint by numbers" approach enough to get you somewhere with women? Possibly, at least in the short term. But why not…

[X&Y] This Is Downright Cruel...Is It Being Done To You?

Published: Sun, 06/01/25

Updated: Sun, 06/01/25

===== THIS IS DOWNRIGHT CRUEL…IS IT BEING DONE TO YOU? What happened here? Se was supposed to be the simplest, most natural thing for us as humans.

[X&Y] What To Do When Your Buddies Hit On Your Girlfriend

Published: Sat, 05/31/25

Updated: Sat, 05/31/25

===== IN THIS EDITION: You roll your eyes and can't help but think, "here we go again..." One of your acquaintances is trying to make time with your…

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