[X&Y] Yes, There's A Very Real Shortcut
Published: Thu, 09/18/25
Updated: Thu, 09/18/25
===== YES, THERE'S A VERY REAL SHORTCUT Have you been going through the motions for years in an effort to get the right woman in your life, but it's…
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[X&Y] True Grit, No Quit 💯
Published: Wed, 09/17/25
Updated: Wed, 09/17/25
===== TRUE GRIT, NO QUIT By now you know I love to talk about grit and mental toughness, which are often spoken of as if synonymous. Grit has been…
[X&Y] Weird Secret To Keeping A Woman Interested
Published: Tue, 09/16/25
Updated: Tue, 09/16/25
===== IN THIS EDITION: Acting out on most song lyrics wouldn't serve you well in real life. Here's a key e ception... ===== A SPECIAL MESSAGE IF YOU…
[X&Y] My Dark Secret
Published: Mon, 09/15/25
Updated: Mon, 09/15/25
===== WHAT'S INSIDE: What motivates me to do my job every day? That's a great question, deserving of a solid answer. ===== RELATIONSHIP MANAGEMENT IS…
[X&Y] Getting Women's Hints And Being "Friends First" [Reader Question]
Published: Sun, 09/14/25
Updated: Sun, 09/14/25
===== WHAT'S INSIDE: What's it going to take to get you to figure out she LIKES you? That's what SHE'S asking, as it turns out... ===== FALL IS IN…
[X&Y] What Is "Femininity", Anyway?
Published: Sat, 09/13/25
Updated: Sat, 09/13/25
===== WHAT'S INSIDE: So what makes a woman "feminine" anyway? Why do they turn us on so much? You may have just automatically assumed it doesn't…
[X&Y] Being In Control Vs. Being A Controlling Jerk
Published: Fri, 09/12/25
Updated: Fri, 09/12/25
===== WHAT'S INSIDE: You've got to "wear the pants", but you don't want to be a controlling jerk. Here's how to get this right... ===== WHAT IF YOU…
[X&Y] How To Avoid Boring Her To Death (Reader Question)
Published: Thu, 09/11/25
Updated: Thu, 09/11/25
===== IN THIS EDITION: You have a new girlfriend, and plan on keeping her around. How do you make sure the two of you don't run out of e citing things…
[X&Y] Do This One Thing And Be More Attractive Immediately
Published: Wed, 09/10/25
Updated: Wed, 09/10/25
===== IN THIS EDITION: One of the best ways to immediately improve your attractiveness to women is to get out of the habit of being a "complainer".
[X&Y] Part Two: 6 Harsh Wake-Up Calls
Published: Tue, 09/09/25
Updated: Tue, 09/09/25
===== WHAT'S INSIDE: Here are three more dating disasters that can only serve to make your life miserable if you allow them to run their evil course.