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Scot McKay's newsletter on how to be a great man and get the girlfriend of your dreams

The pattern I keep seeing...

Published: Thu, 02/19/26

Updated: Thu, 02/19/26

Here's another thing I've noticed after years of coaching men on success with women. The guys who feel frustrated aren't missing information. There's…

This might be you...

Published: Wed, 02/18/26

Updated: Wed, 02/18/26

Most men who reach out to me say some version of this: "When it comes to women, I know what I'm supposed to do. I just don't do it when it matters."…

[X&Y] Approaching Women: 6 Lessons From The Field

Published: Tue, 02/17/26

Updated: Tue, 02/17/26

===== 6 LESSONS FROM THE FIELD ON APPROACHING WOMEN I still get a huge adrenaline rush every time a guy flies in for a live, on-site weekend of…

[X&Y] Reclaim Your Masculinity, Name Your Price

Published: Sun, 02/15/26

Updated: Mon, 02/16/26

===== THE BEST FROM OUR OTHER COACHES, NAME YOUR PRICE Here's another brand new Pay What You Want promo for you. If you haven't gotten in on the…

[X&Y] "I Wish I'd Done This Sooner."

Published: Sat, 02/14/26

Updated: Sat, 02/14/26

===== "I WISH I'D DONE THIS SOONER." Lots of guys I've worked with hesitated at first. Not because they didn’t want the outcome. Not because they…

[X&Y] The Cost Isn't Rejection. It's This...

Published: Sat, 02/14/26

Updated: Sat, 02/14/26

===== THE COST ISN’T REJECTION. IT’S THIS. You can recover from rejection. You can recover from embarrassment. You can recover from trying and…

[X&Y] She's Out There Right Now

Published: Thu, 02/12/26

Updated: Thu, 02/12/26

===== SHE'S OUT THERE RIGHT NOW... The woman you'd actually be e cited to introduce to your friends. The one who makes you want to be a better man.

[X&Y] Why You Haven't Found (And Chosen) Her Yet

Published: Wed, 02/11/26

Updated: Wed, 02/11/26

===== WHY YOU HAVEN'T FOUND (AND CHOSEN) HER YET Let me tell you something nobody else will: You already know what you need to do. You've read the…

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